I did not fully realize the gravity of all that comes with touring out of state colleges, especially the ones that require a two-hour flight, cost about the same as a starter home, and creates much fear of loss. In six days, we saw some things to behold, including one college right on the Pacific Ocean that boast the first real Greek Theatre in America and an authentic carnival with amusement rides as well as a parade for the president of the school on his birthday. We also saw two large pieces of the Berlin Wall, a source of pride for both Universities.
We even stood on a campus high above Los Angeles, with a commanding 180-degree vista from the Hollywood sign to the Santa Monica Pier. Listening to six different enthusiastic student tour guides, all charged with showing the very best of each campus. made this a bit of a popularity contest. Each of them seemed to know the reason why the financial aid conversation comes last. It’s because the cost to attend will produce chest pain for some, including me. I’m not sure I’d be fit for one of these Dog and Pony Show roles knowing I was about to make every adult in the room question their investment decisions from the past decade or so. Each well-versed guide brought their own sense of purpose and meaning to the two-hour tour. All of them are very good at walking backwards while pointing to the mission of each structure, statue, and facade.
Because I was in the part of the class that made the top half possible, my options included Harvard on the Hill, a local moniker for Highline College or Green River College, known as the Rock of the Valley because it was the only community college radio station where everyone seemed to get their start. Fortunately, the Greatest Kid in the World has accomplished the exact opposite of my educational acumen. Daniela has taken every opportunity to learn above her grade. She’s earned this once in a lifetime opportunity.
Although we have one more high school year ahead of us, I now know what the year that follows might look like. If the only thing that’s really inevitable is change…this is going to be a big one for this late in life mother and father. We’re a tight squad that’s about to send our best player to another team but we know this will make her an even better member of the human race. Pray for us.
As always, beautifully written. I got a little emotional myself visualizing the pain you and Jill are feeling as Dani grows and becomes her own person. Rest assured, you have both done the beautiful job raising this remarkable human. She knows you will let her fly. She knows you will be there with open arms and a listening ear when she needs it most. Much love to you , Jill and Dani❤️.
Tiny